You say it best

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….sometimes good things fall apart so better things can fall together.” – Marilyn Monroe
Life isn’t about finding yourself; life is about creating yourself. – George Bernard Shaw
“There is a sacredness in tears. They are not the mark of weakness, but of power. They speak more eloquently than ten thousand tongues. They are messengers of overwhelming grief…and unspeakable love.”

-Washington Irving